When going through divorce proceedings, it can be tempting to get some things off your chest by expressing your grievances on social media. This could include complaining about something your ex-partner has said, giving details about proposed financial arrangements or trying to persuade others to take your side of the argument. However, there are multiple reasons as to why this could put you at a disadvantage.
Legal Implications
One of the most important factors to consider before posting on social media during divorce proceedings is that anything posted can be used as evidence against you in court. What you may perceive as harmless could be misconstrued to shine a negative light on you and your case. An example of this is posting about a recent holiday you went on, which could be used as evidence of financial irresponsibility. There is also the possibility you may be inadvertently violating court orders by posting on social media. So as tempting as it may be to air your frustrations about your ex-partner especially if they are doing the same thing, it may lead to you having a worse outcome in your case and should be avoided at all costs.
Social Implications
Posting your thoughts in the heat of the moment during divorce proceedings may lead to others, including your children, to have a misguided perception of you. This could have implications across all aspects of your life such as future relationships, employment opportunities and friendships. Increasing tensions online during this difficult time could also make it harder to move on after the proceedings. When something has been posted on the internet, although it can be deleted, it cannot be unseen by those who viewed it.
It is not uncommon for tempers to run high during divorce proceedings. Feelings are raw and the inevitable feelings of stress and frustration may take over and cause people to act in manners they would not usually condone. Taking a step back from social media can protect your legal standing, social life and emotional well-being during what can be an extremely changing chapter of your life.
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Author: Ffion Witcomb
Published: 19.11.24